Wednesday, August 11, 2010

quotes i like

from Thomas Troeger’s hymn Too Splendid for Speech:

Too splendid for speech but ripe for a song:
the wonders of God to whom we belong!
What tune can we sing? What rich chords can we play
to honor the potter who formed us from clay?

We’ll catch the soft sounds that sift through the breeze,
We’ll hum with the whales that hum in the seas.
The waters that tickle the earth into Spring
will teach us the lilting new life we could sing.

The earth is God’d flute, God’s cello and chime,
the Wind draws the notes. The seasons keep time.
At dusk and at night, from the sunrise past noon,
God’s playing and singing a ravishing tune.

The swell of earth’s praise will build to a blast
of trumpets and drums when God comes at last
to hear if our live,s like the heavens above
are filled with the music of justice and love.

Alert to your notes that dance in the heart,
we promise, O God, that we’ll sing our part
and pray that the song which your song shall inspire
will lead every nation to join in your choir.

quotes i like

snippets i particularly like from the hymns of Terry York:

“help us then rejoice in challenge…help us see Divine potential in each challenge.” (from God Our Father, You Have Led Us)

”...worthy of all the glad songs we can sing” (from Worthy of Worship)

“give us love with no exceptions…through us let your peace prevail” (from God Who Made Us, Christ Who Calls Us)

quotes i like

from Alan Raines, director of choirs at Baylor during a recent seminar:

“The choir won’t be engaged if we aren’t.”

“If you don’t know the score, you can’t teach it.”

“Diction is about the sound of EVERY part of every word.”

“Teach first, conduct second.”

“Equip your choir with the skills to succeed.”

“Every rehearsal we must teach how to read.”

“The key to success is the piece you select. Don’t set the choir up for failure.”

“The only limitation on the choir is you.”

quotes i like

other Marva Dawn quotes from a recent conference:

“Worshipping collectively is for the unity of the people and the encouragement of the body.”

“No other religion [speaking of Christianity] in the world focuses on grace.”

“The point of worship is NOT evangelism.”

“As church musicians, we must be clear in our role. The role of church music is to help us think about God and God’s nature. It is not about taste, it is not about us.”

“There is a difference is giving directions and being the way.”

quotes i like

from a lecture by Marva Dawn, speaking of worship:

“It’s not just an activity, it’s a way of life.”

quotes i like

another quote from my two year old, when he realized we were getting dressed to go swimming:

“i need my baby soup!”

quotes i like

from my two year old, Max. an “adaptation” of something Woody from the movie Toy Story says:

“hoohah, cowboy!” :-)

quotes i like

“Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you would rather have talked.”

collected from an NYPL tweet from the book “How to Live: A Search for Wisdom from Old People (While They Are Still on This Earth)” by Henry Alford

quotes i like

“drinking coffee is a great way to build community.” (from a LutheranWorldRelief tweet)

8/10/2010 reading

still reading “in search of stones” and also reading “square foot gardening”

8/10/2010 spending time with the boys

yesterday ann took carter (our seven year old) to six flags and they were gone all day and went right to bed when they got home, so i didn’t really get to spend any time with carter, but i like that ann spent the whole day with him and they had a good time. the time i spent with our little guy (2 years old) was a lot of fun. he wanted to read so many books and is intrigued and concerned about the seedier characters in stories, particularly ones in stories from the bible for some reason- namely joseph’s “not nice brothers” (who stole his nice coat, threw him in a hole, and then sold him to the gypsies!) and then the “bad king” from whom Moses’ mother was trying to protect him. He’s also very intrigued by the story of Joshua (and the falling of the city of Jericho). he wants to read that story over and over (and over and over!) and loves the song about it. he was dancing his heart out last night to that song (see video in the “happiness” post).

8/10 and 8/11/2010 happiness is...

watching our two year old dance like it’s the best part of living (http://qik.com/video/10533667)

a day trip tradition that ann and our 7 year old take together each year

seeing all the members of my family in the morning

an encouraging word from a colleague this morning on the way into work about my weight loss

discovering new books i want to read

and this quote:
“Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you would rather have talked.” (from the book How to Live: A Search for Wisdom from Old People (While They Are Still On This Earth).

Monday, August 09, 2010

8/8/10 spending time with my boys

after technically achieving this goal at the grocery store and it not going well and thinking “i never want to go grocery shopping with them again!” (ages 7 and 2), i realized i wanted to change the experience and clear my negative, short-tempered cloud. before max the little one went to bed, i just soaked up the adorableness, liveliness, wonder that he always exudes (even when he’s into everything an being a handful). and it makes me smile and makes me know love.

after max went to bed, ann and i played a game with carter and it felt really good to spend time with him with him having to share the spotlight with little brother or without plans getting derailed because of little brother. i loved the moments filled with laughter and fun. he’s a really good kid. they both are. i want to focus on that and what they bring to life and the time we share together and not get sidetracked by the little petty disturbances. thanks to ann for helping me see this…even if she didn’t realize she was doing that last night. she’s a wonderful teacher, friend, co-parent, and partner.

8/9/10 happiness is...

a calendar date that makes a nifty pattern

weighing in this morning and finding out that i lost 3 pounds since last week for a total of 30 lbs since starting my program.

a realization:
while at work today i thought about why someone i work with hadn’t noticed something i thought they should and realizing, “oh, that’s because they only notice things that irritate them.” and then it hit me…what a terrible way to be remembered or way to operate in life. the happiness moment is thinking about how i want to make sure that’s not how i operate. will i choose to notice the positive things? will i make that part of who i am and how i relate? the whole moment felt really lightning rod-ish and that makes me happy to have a revelation about how/who i CAN be and choosing good.

8/9/10 happiness is...

a calendar date that makes a nifty pattern

weighing in this morning and finding out that i lost 3 pounds since last week for a total of 30 lbs since starting my program.

Sunday, August 08, 2010

guilty pleasures #9: quiet sunday afternoons

with a cup of coffee and a book while the family sleeps

8/8/10 stuff i'm currently reading

M. Scott Peck’s “In Search of Stones” (really good)

Jonathan Bender’s “Lego: A Love Story” (not so impressed)

Books about building ponds and streams and patios and walkways

next on the horizon…

Square Foot Gardening
Super Freakonomics

8/8/10 Stuff i recently finished reading

Ayelet Waldman’s “Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace”

Kate Braestrup’s “Marriage and Other Acts of Charity: A Memoir”

happiness is... 7/21-8/8/2010

21. an energizing and recharging conference
22. dinner with friends we haven’t seen in a while
23. putting a msg on google cal with an sms msg reminder to send my sweetie a surprise msg!
24. working on a big backyard project
25. working together on our southwest garden
26. feeling a sense of accomplishment on the project
27. my wonderful wife and boys
28. time spent working on our relationship
29. looking forward to our trip to the beach!
30. all of us together (as we drive to the beach) and seeing family
31. building a sand castle with carter
1. spending time with my amazing and beautiful wife
2. an early morning on the beach looking for shells and finding a hermit crab. also finally getting back to our home after a late night drive.
3. lunch with a friend to talk about new possibilities
4. surviving too many meetings at work! :-)
5. a new staff member starting and lunch with the whole gang
6. another great lunch with another great friend who brings fresh and wise perspective
7. morning with the family with no real plans. a trip to the water garden place to think about the next backyard project, reflecting (much later!) on not being short-tempered, sonic drinks on a super hot day!, having an upstairs A/C unit when the downstairs one failed!
8. a quiet sunday afternoon, some of the fam sleeping, a chance to reflect and enjoy the quiet…and did i mention having a working upstairs A/C unit? ;-)

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

7/19/10

mowed the grass (more work than it’s worth!) :-)
jogged for 10 minutes and weights

7/20/10 happiness is...

no surprises at my dental checkup!
completing some tasks (even if they’re small ones)
change of pace in the day with a conference that’s on campus

Saturday, July 17, 2010

7/17/10 happiness is...

watching my two boys (7 and 2) playing together right now and laughing together chasing each other around the house, though the noise might drive everyone crazy!

7/17/10 spending time with my boys

one of my favorite moments with my little guy is when i come home from work. he always says, “Hi! DAD!” like it’s the most surprising, wonderful thing to encounter me coming in the door. he’ll run right up and give a hug as if he hasn’t seen you in months.

last night my seven year old wanted me to build legos with him. i really wanted to read, and did for a while, but he kept pestering me about it and i was feeling guilty. once i went to build with him, he came alive and we had fun. even though i wanted to read more than i wanted to build legos (even though i like that too), i saw that he just wanted to spend time together and that makes me smile. while i don’t want to cease to exist as my own person and just become an entertainment robot for my kids, i do want to cherish the time we can spend together and appreciate the time they want to spend with me.

Friday, July 16, 2010

716/10 on reading

not sure how purists would feel about this, but i’m going to count listening to audiobooks in my goal of reading some each day. just started listening to michael pollan’s book second nature: a gardener’s education. i LOVE it. he’s such a great writer and i find myself smiling so often after delightful images he’s creating or delicious turns of phrases. so far i’m only listening in little chunks to and from work, but i keep finding myself thinking, “i should buy the book format of this so i can go back through and highlight all these wonderful things i love about this book and revisit them (easier than in the audiobook version).” that might just be my obsessive book hoarding psyche speaking though.

7/16/10 being intentional

one of the ways i want to be more intentional is to record my thoughts more regularly about the things that are important to me and goals that i have, being more aware of what i’m doing and how i’m doing. rereading older entries on my goals and “things i’m doing,” i realize there are rich memories that would otherwise be forgotten to cherish, to revisit, by which to be inspired and by which to be revitalized.

7/16/10 my boys

during the school year, my time with the boys in the morning is usually frantic and fast paced trying to get everyone out the door and fed, etc. even though i work in the summer, i like the subtle shift in the little bit of time we have together in the mornings since they and ann (who teaches school) don’t have to race out the door (and since my “racing” is a little slower than other times a year!). this morning i enjoyed actually sitting down at the table with ann and our little one eating breakfast and listening to max talk and be cheerful (though when ann vetoed his post breakfast plan of hitting a soccer ball around the house with a badminton racket, he was not so cheerful!). in the little bit of time when we were all together and before i left for work, i smiled about carter, our seven year old and how he did several chores without being asked, how he helped his little brother and how i watched him sitting outside at our new patio table, just soaking in the world around him. i have two wonderful boys and an amazing wife. i’m one to avoid overused phrases that get batted around with little meaning or understanding, like the phrase, “i’m so blessed,” but i’m letting that phrase sit in my head and repeat itself until i’ve explored every angle, corner, meaning, that could be in there, because in some deep and rich way, i truly believe that i am.

Untitled

started listening to david allen’s audiobook version of Getting Things Done. seems like lots of great ideas for getting organized and reducing the stress that comes from trying to keep up with everything you’re doing in your head or in a variety of systems that aren’t integrated.

7/16/10 happiness is...

eating breakfast with my family
watching my youngest son’s excitement at each new day
watching my oldest son sitting outside quietly taking in the world and admiring a new piece of art he created
my first image in the morning being my beautiful wife
realizing i’m making good progress on my weight loss goal

Thursday, July 15, 2010

exercise every day this week...

wow…i haven’t written anything about this goal in TWO YEARS! it hasn’t been that long without, but it’s been pretty barren. recent vacation that included white water rafting and climbing two fourteeners has inspired me to get back on the wagon. so far this week has been good, but need to keep it up.

achieving inbox zero

not sure why, but it’s easy for me to achieve inbox “ten or less” but for some reason just can’t finish the job! ????

7/15/10 being more intentional

as in leaving work right now to be with my beautiful wife and two great boys!

7/15/10 spending time with my boys

recent moments that make me smile…
sitting in the dark on our patio with our seven year old (and his beautiful mom) looking at the stars and just talking about all kinds of things like how whales can hear really low pitches and dogs can hear really high pitches that we can’t.

eating breakfast with my little one while the rest of the family is asleep

7/15/10 happiness is...

sitting down to write to my beloved about the things i love about her

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

6/19/09 spending time with my boys

yet another 43things journal that i’ve neglected recording! uggh! recent moments with my boys include:

with little guy-
watching him intrigued by a new dish with a lid he can poke his hand through. it was so cute to see the cogs turning in his head about how to approach and work this new thing he’d never seen before. lately he’s been practicing waving, clapping, and playing peek-a-boo. he’s also pretty proud of himself because he’s finally gotten the hang of pushing buttons on toys. his smile is the best thing in the world. it can melt away any troubles or worries.

with my big guy-
lately we’ve been building legos (that’s not anything new!), jumping on the trampoline, playing frisbee, kicking a ball, going to the park, and working on letterboxes. we’ve also been working on a secret mission adventure that a friend of mine recently created for his boys.

6/10/09

a happy tune discovered and a delicious cup of coffee

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

6/9/09 happiness is...

so it’s been four months since i’ve logged anything here. eeek! plenty of happy things, just not enough time!

some recent highlights:

my wonderful wife
weekend getaway
my parents watching the boys
my youngest on the verge of walking
my oldest enjoying spending time with his parents
a new tree

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Library Memories

I recently asked Twitter followers (and Facebook friends too thanks to Twitter->Facebook autoposting):

what's your earliest memory of libraries? mine is discovering Babaar books in the san antonio public downtown -age five

and these are the replies I got back:

david_burns @shatowers first specific memory was finding and reading The Halloween Tree by Ray Bradbury in my school library in 3rd grade.

roxanneglaser @shatowers about age 5 going to library with my grandmother and checking out a HUGE stack of books.

roxanneglaser @shatowers then I discovered that authors wrote more than one book. How cool is that?!?!?!?

carlflynn @david_burns @shatowers First memory: Discovering childrens' section at Oxnard Public Library - age 7 or so.

AEM at 1:15pm February 24
I remember going to a public library in Omaha, NE when I was probably four or five and frequently checking out the books "Ferdinand" and "Mog."

SK at 1:18pm February 24 via Facebook Mobile
I went to the Lackland Elementary School Library.

KW at 1:21pm February 24
It's one of my first memories! I was probably 3 and was so embarrassed that I didn't know how to read the books so I sat down at the tables and ran my finger down each page pretending to read them. They were probably upside down or something! haha

CM at 1:32pm February 24
I read all the books about horses availabile at the public library when I was 4.

KMB at 2:56pm February 24
Checking out Green Eggs and Ham EVERY TIME I went. :-)



Wednesday, January 14, 2009

1/14/09 happiness is....

well, i fell too far behind to catch up with a long list, but here are few recents:

1. knowing that it’s ok that if i drop the ball on this goal, as long as it keeps reminding me to look for the good and the happiness that swirls around me each day

2. sacred space – sacred time

3. a solitary lunch that i could savor quietly, soaking in all the beauty around me…from the crisp weather, the trees around me, the delicious food, the hands that prepared the food and served, that i could not try to fill the time with things like reading, checking mail, but just being

4. the smile on my baby’s face

Friday, December 26, 2008

Legomania
i remember playing with Legos when i was a kid, but they weren't nearly as cool or complicated back then! Carter and i (and lots of other relatives!) have been building Lego stuff for days now and we're having a blast. technology has helped feed our addiction: a friend of ann's mentioned via facebook, that he'd bought Legos in bulk for his kids on Ebay. the next thing i know, we have several shipments of Legos coming to us from all over the country! Carter doesn't know about these yet. i'm trying to decide if we should stash them away for another occasion since he just got a lot of Legos. But then again, if we do that, we might forget where we've hidden them, or they might get stale or something! ;-)

12/26/08 spending time with my boys

most of my time with my littlest one is spent holding, feeding, changing, etc., but the littlest things are what i remember most…the tiniest smile, the look of wonder, the grabbing things with his iron claw hands! holding him during the Christmas Eve service was especially meaningful to me.

with my “big guy”, we’ve spent a lot of time lately building all kinds of Lego stuff. he’s really into that now and i’m amazed by the attention to detail he has. he studies the directions and notices every little change..even ones that i miss. last night we had fun working on his new Lego police station (with its nearly 1,000 pieces!)

12/21/08 spending time with my boys

i changed two poopy diapers today (bonding happens in all kind of odd places)

looking back over the last entry, i find it interesting that as i sit down to write this one, it’s filled with all the same things as the last.

enjoy cuddling with my little guy (6 mos.) and watching him be intrigued with the smallest and to most people the least interesting things (he held a christmas card today turning it over in his hands and investigating it for half an hour, never tiring of its newness). love to see him smile and laugh.

my big guy adores the little one and takes great pleasure in entertaining him. today in the car, he was getting the little guy to laugh and getting tickled himself. lots of wonderful laughter.

we spent some time building lego stuff and watching Miracle on 34th Street (oddly, the first time i’ve ever seen it in all my forty plus years)

my five year old helped me change a flat tire today and made me smile thinking of the tire changing scene in A Christmas Story (it wasn’t as exciting as that scene, btw).

we read poems from Where the Sidewalk Ends….a frequent bedtime ritual.

spending time with my boys 12/6/08

recent highlights (since i’ve done a poor job staying up to date!):

putting up and decorating the christmas tree with carter
laughing and playing with max
watching carter adore and entertain max
listening to max laugh at his big brother
playing made up games with carter
basketball practice with carter
building lego stuff with carter

Pet Peeve #17 bait and switch -12/21/08

it drives me crazy when someone interrupts you for some reason and then somehow turns it around and makes you feel like you’re taking up THEIR time. the NERVE!

Pet Peeve #16 people who don't listen - 12/21/08

this includes people off in their own world, people who ask for help/directions/advice and then are too busy thinking about what THEIR answer would be to listen, people that have attention deficit disorders, people that are just dumb, and people that don’t get that listening is the most important skill you could have. if you can’t listen, you’re an idiot, but then again, you probably didn’t hear me.

#15 pet peeve: line cutters 12/6/08

ok, i know i’m an adult and this sounds awfully “elementary school”, but people who cut in line really piss me off! it doesn’t matter whether they intended to or whether they’re just too self absorbed to realize it, both of them irritate me. ok, now i’ll try to forget about how much this annoys me because i’m sure all the line cutters in my life combined probably only added 3 extra minutes of waiting in line!

12/22/08-12/26/08 happiness is...

26. a sleeping house
25. christmas with family
24. a beautiful christmas eve service with choir and strings
23. more christmas with family
22. not being at work!

12/19-21/08 happiness is...

watching my five year old make a basket during a scrimmage and watching him get so excited that he’s getting better and better at basketball

eating and visiting with friends

reading to my son

weather that actually feels like winter (at least for this part of the country….low tonight in the mid 20s)

playing games with my son (tonight we learned and played several games that were new to us (card and dice games) and it was fun to see my five year old get excited about learning new games and enjoy playing them.

managing with the two boys tonight while ann went out with some friends for dinner

a house so quiet that i can hear the refridgerator humming

12/12-18/08 happiness is...

12-18
dinner with friends
laughter and silliness
a helpful five year old
a smiling, laughing baby
reading together
a shrinking inbox
good coffee (Peet’s)
cold weather
the chance of snow

12/11/08 happiness is...

12/10/08 happiness is...

a biting winter wind (i know that sounds crazy, but if it’s going to be winter, then be WINTER! snow would be nice, but that’s a rare event in this part of the world)

12/9/08 happiness is...

12/8/08 happiness is...

my five year old deciding on his own that he wanted to clear the table after dinner and rinse off the dishes (and he was excited about it!)

12/7/08a happiness is...

the choir that i direct did a really nice job today and it’s a joy to work with them.

12/7/08 happiness is...

12/6/08

knowing that even though i haven’t entered anything on this for more than a couple months, that i HAVE actually been happy through all that time! today i’m happy reconnecting with old friends.

Wednesday, October 01, 2008

guilty pleasures #8

having a starbucks in walking distance from my office!

10/1 happiness is...

a shrinking inbox
my inbox and i have a love/hate relationship. it’s a wonderful tool, but also a stone around my neck. still working on inbox zero as an approach, but it’s hard to master the processing and also not resorting to constant checking in an effort to keep the floodgates at bay. recent pics of hurricane ike hitting the galveston seawall is exactly how i imagine my inbox and my attempts to keep it afloat.

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Saturday, September 27, 2008

spending time with my boys

playing soccer with carter, reading books together, laughing with max and seeing him becoming more aware of what’s going on around him

9/27/08 happiness is...

9/27 being with my family and making breakfast together
9/26 the crazy chaos of coaching kindergarten soccer
9/25 good company, good food
9/24 medieval music manuscripts and making music together
9/23 lunch with a friend at a place i hadn’t been in a while

Monday, September 22, 2008

9/22/08 happiness is.... or why i hate mondays

so today i thought, “i’m not even writing a “happiness is” entry because besides mondays suck in general” and because my day started off with: dropping off Carter at school and realizing he left his backpack at home; dropping off Max at daycare and realizing i forgot to bring a check to pay for this week; getting gas and discovering that the auto shut-off…ummm…DOESN’T, as overpriced gas pours down the side of my car then splashes off the ground on to me; followed by realizing, once i made it to work and parked the car, that i forgot to leave Max’s bottles with him at daycare. UGGGH! HOWEVER, after a little bit of reflection (and maybe gas fume intoxication), i discovered the following. At least our home isn’t too far from Carter’s school, at least there’s a grace period on daycare payments, at least i have a car to drive and money to buy gas, at least i have a way to return to daycare and a handful more reasons to think about my kids during a busy day. and about mondays…at least i had an enjoyable weekend and made it to another week. that’s the beauty of this exercise….you can even find good things to ponder on a monday.

9/21/08 happiness is...

church at the lake followed by catered BBQ lunch, seeing old friends, lots of people wanting to hold Max.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

9/20/08 happiness is....

so i really love the idea of the “thing” on 43things.com of finding at least one thing each day that makes you happy and record it everyday for a year. looks like the last time i made an entry was over a month ago though. that sounds like i’ve been unhappy lately, but it’s not that at all. it’s just been so crazy busy that i haven’t had time to do it. i do think it’s important and when done daily, is a good practice of looking for the good in things and the good in each day. it should only take two seconds to do, and i’m on the computer what seems like most of the day, so why can’t i be successful at this goal? i’m not sure, but like i’ve said before, at least no one is grading this! (i think???) so here’s to a new start.

things that make me happy right now—-
my wonderful wife and wonderful sons
the sleeping baby next to me
that ann is actually getting to sleep in right now
visits from family this week
carter’s curiosity and watching him process what he encounters
that i’m going to work on a habitat for humanity build this afternoon

may you find the little things that make you happy and ponder them for just a minute…maybe you’ll begin the practice of finding at least one thing each day and recording it too.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Sha's Photo Mosaic
























My friend Ellen pointed me to this fun diversion. See below for more details on how to join in on the fun.

Type your answer to each of the questions below into a Flickr search. Using only the first page of results, choose your favorite image, then copy and paste each of the URLs into the mosaic maker (3 columns, 4 rows). Let me know what you come up with!

The questions:

  1. What is your first name? (Sha)
  2. What is your favorite food? (Panang curry)
  3. What high school did you attend? (John Marshall, San Antonio...and yes, sadly someone posted a photo of those horrid band uniforms!)
  4. What is your favorite color? (eggplant...so this isn't really eggplant the color, but a cool photo OF an eggplant the vegetable!)
  5. Who is your celebrity crush? (Ashley Judd)
  6. Favorite drink? (coffee)
  7. Dream vacation? (Scotland)
  8. Favorite dessert? (creme brule)
  9. What do you want to be when you grow up? (astronaut)
  10. What do you love most in life? (family)
  11. One word to describe you. (introspective)
  12. Your Flickr name. (sha_towers)

8/11-13/08 happiness is...

the whole family in the same room (sometimes!) :-)
random nuggets of wisdom from my five year old
cooing baby
just a tiny hint, maybe for only a few minutes, of cooler weather (it won’t last, but it was nice!)
watching Ann and Max sleep

8/13/08 spending time with my guys

tonight Carter and i watched some olympics together, played wii, and then he helped me give Max a bath.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

8/10/08 spending time with my guys

sitting outside with baby Max watching him quietly look around in wonder at everything…soaking it all in. also watching him fall asleep in my arms.

playing ninja turtles with Carter and baking coffee cup cakes (they were actually gross, but a lot of fun to watch growing up out of the mug like those snake fireworks!) also enjoyed reading books to him before bed.

8/10/08 happiness is...

rearranging furniture
making dinner together
visit from friends
getting to watch a movie together (rare occurrence with a 5 y.o. and a 2 month old!)

Saturday, August 09, 2008

dissecting a macbook

today i disassembled the spacebar on ann's macbook because it was sticking. after i had it all apart, a local five year old confessed to spilling yogurt on it and not telling us because he didn't want us to be mad! after a handful of pieces (who knew a spacebar could be so complicated?) and lots of cleaning, it's back together and functioning as good as new. so i'm thinking about opening up a side business specializing in macbook spacebar repairs for yogurt-based offenses. don't worry, i'm not quitting my day job....yet.


8/8/08 spending time

so i guess i should title this spending time with carter and max now that i have two sons! though the time is pretty different, as one is five and one is two months!
the three of us are hanging out this morning while mom gets some much needed sleep. huh…just realized, all the guys are in the kitchen awake, and all the girls (including our two great danes) are asleep in the bedroom. not sure what gender the hermit crabs are, but they’re probably asleep too!)

8/9/08 happiness is...

a pleasant saturday morning with my two little guys
a happy baby
good coffee

8/8/08 happiness is...

time with friends
a good night’s sleep
fridays (the day!)
discovering new music

Friday, August 08, 2008

so i was grocery shopping last night and i see Christi Proctor, designer on TLC's "Trading Spaces, slogging her cart around just like me (did you know people on tv actually buy groceries?). So i'm thinking, if she shops here, and she's famous, that must make the store a famous grocery store, and since i shop there, that must make me famous...by association, ya know.  (i bet she knows Kevin Bacon, too). :-)

Thursday, August 07, 2008

Tuesday, August 05, 2008

#13 pet peeve: vehicular pride

list 43 pet peeves and then try to forget about them:

this is related to pet peeve #12, but what drives people to be so excited about the brand of their vehicle that they put super dumb stickers on their car, for which the whole point is to argue that their make is better than another? prime example is that stupid Calvinesque character peeing on another automaker’s name or emblem. “here’s what i’m all about…telling everyone that [ford] is way cooler than [chevy]!” (MORON!!!) who cares about this??? and is that really the best you can do? is there NOTHING else you feel strongly about that you could stick all over your car i think even nascar stickers on your car is a step up from this.

#12 pet peeve: redundant advertising

list 43 pet peeves and then try to forget about them:

why do some people feel the need to add stickers, etc. to their vehicle which tells you what kind of vehicle it is? “hey, i know there’s a chevy symbol on the back of my car/truck, but you know what would be really cool? if i put a gigantic chevy emblem decal in my rear window!”

pet peeve #11 crabby people

i’m not talking about people who have crabby moments (we’re ALL in that group!), but people who are perpetually crabby and negative. for some it’s because of circumstances others might not know about or understand, but for some it’s just a nasty habit. they’ve become what they say and do. maybe when i encounter such people, they can serve as a reminder for me not to go down that road, or to appreciate people who spread happiness more.

8/4/08 spending time with carter

recently carter and i had a good time racing matchbox cars on the kind of track i remember from my childhood. still just as fun! we’ve also had fun recently building a lego rocketship, playing hulabaloo, wii, and watching a couple lightning storms.

Sunday, August 03, 2008

Thursday, July 31, 2008

43 guilty pleasures #6: reality tv

new seasons of Big Brother AND Survivor! (it’s like CHRISTMAS!)

achieving inbox zero

this is another one of those things that helps remind me i’m human and prone to repeated failure! :-) i had another little breakthrough, thanks to the person who got me interested in GTD stuff. i was letting my inbox slip because it just created a monster task list that was now unmanageable. trying some things to fix that.

7/31/08 spending time with carter

though i have been spending time with carter, i haven’t been good about recording it here. it’s not like he’s reading this, but i find that reading back through it is helpful to me and helps remember little moments that might otherwise be forgotten.

last night we walked across the street to a field to kick the soccer ball around and it was fun to see little successes. he was so excited to be able to control the ball better. we also looked in amazement at these crazy deep cracks in the earth – big enough to break your leg in and wondered what kind of monsters might live in those cracks.

7/31/08: happiness is...

the smile of a small child
being the only one awake in a quiet house
creative solutions
good thai food
making dinner together

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

happiness is...

it’s been a while since i’ve posted here and life’s been kind of a blur since then anyway! but one of the things that has made me happy since then has been the birth of my second son on 5/27. that and how excited and helpful his big brother has been about his arrival.

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

pet peeve #10

list 43 pet peeves and then try to forget about them:

the new neighbors’ teenage son’s @&#@&#!@&# friends that just ruined the peaceful quiet neighborhood

4/26/08-5/7/08 happiness is....

things that have made me happy in the last week, in no particular order, include (but aren’t limited to!):

the approaching end of the semester
audiobooks
a quick weekend getaway to our favorite bed and breakfast
carter’s excitement about his soon to arrive baby brother
letting carter name his baby brother!
plans for getting away this summer
uncontrollable laughter
accomplishing inbox zero
unexpected kindness
coffee break with a friend
curried lentils

5/6/08 spending time with carter

yesterday, carter’s t-ball game was rained out so we went to the park so he could ride his bike and we played soccer (despite the mud!).

Friday, April 04, 2008

pet peeve #9

list 43 pet peeves and then try to forget about them:

some neighbor who complained to the city about my dogs barking for an hour at midnight, when my dogs aren’t ever outside after midnight and are sound asleep by then!

spending time with carter

it’s been so nice since the time changed so there’s actually sunlight and time to do stuff outside after everyone gets home from work and school. carter started t-ball this spring and we’ve been practicing a lot. he seems to love it and is getting really good. he’s also getting the hang of riding a bike and it’s such a joy to see his excitement about it.

4/4/08 happiness is...

a floor-to-ceiling, third-floor window from which to watch the storm blowing in.

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

4/2/08 happiness is....

first of all, i can’t believe 7 weeks have flown by since i’ve posted anything here! the whole point was to find just one thing a day that makes me happy and record it. the good news is, it hasn’t been 7 weeks of unhappiness, just busyness. there’s been much to be happy of and i just haven’t made the time to reflect on it here (which is one thing that makes me UNhappy!) anway, just a few happy things from recent days:
1) carter’s (my 4.5 year old son) excitement at the first steps of riding a bike and seeing him pedal about 50 yards on his own and turning around to see how far he’s gone…and the huge smile on his face at the sight of his accomplishment.
2) carter’s excitement about playing t-ball.
3) uma (our 1 year old great dane) actually showing signs of growing up (and not being a complete goober and menace to our six year old dane, hilde.
4) and last but not least, carter, with hand on mom’s belly, feeling his little brother kicking carter in the hand and “shout whispering”: “i can feel him! i can feel him!”